The Key to a Guarded Heart

When it comes to revealing the authenticity of my heart, I tend to become very precautious when approaching and or dealing with a new love interest because of the past pain I endured when I gambled in the game of love. Being mislead around in rotation of love’s dark handed deal caused me to become a victim of a fatal, but willing game we all must give in sooner or later. This is what superstar Beyoncé’s song “Halo” is all about: capitulating your heart to someone who has loved you so effectively, it causes you to dismantle your heart’s security system in order to be surrounded by a warm embrace. However, pain seems inevitable in the path of love. When you feel like you’ve been hurt, your jubilant emotions withdraw, causing you to live in reclusion, suspicion, and pain. Soon thereafter, you’ve distanced yourself away from dating, have developed a cold heart that clings onto the hurt from the past, and have become that stereotypical personality that consist of a pessimistic view on everyone’s love life. Creating this internal behavior can wear down in due time only if you choose to allow it down (“a soft word will ease even the firmest of hearts“). Besides, if the outsider’s who are attempting to vie for your affection must care, so what’s the use in being selfish? Being guarded hurts everyone around you, Do you really wanna build a wall that’s so high up that can’t even climb over to see the other side? I suggest you stop at waist level, so you can at least hop over. They to entering a guarded heart is like the Knight of Camelot: only the chosen one who is noble enough can pull the sword out of the stone. This can take patience, self-reflection and real love. There is no special code to onlook the system, ’cause once you fall you just fall…